The
Ramah Way
By Sam Berkowitz,
Ramah Canada
Ramah is the most meaningful place
in the world for me because it inspires me to live a fully Jewish and
a fully contemporary life. At camp, there is no disconnection between
my Jewish self and my secular self. Ramah is the high point of my year
because of the unique combination of Jewish friends who understand my
beliefs without translation, the chance to participate in traditional
camp activities in a comfortably Jewish setting and the efforts of the
Ramah community to create an environment in which I can develop as a
Jew who is also very involved with modern life.
At Ramah, campers
observe the mitzvot and participate in all the activities that are a
part of any summer camp. The lines between religion and everyday life
are blurred so much that they no longer exist. The rabbis, counselors,
specialists and mishlahat (Israeli educational emissaries) at camp
show campers, by example, that a person can be "cool" and
Jewish at the same time.
Micky, a young
mishlahat member who worked at camp, wore a kippah but also shorts and
sandals. Nothing about him screamed "religious guy," but he
was very involved in Judaism. He was a political cartoonist for an
Israeli newspaper, and our friendship pushed my interest in cartooning
further. An Israeli army veteran, he was full of stories. Tsachi, who
brought his family from Israel to Ramah for the summer, seemed like an
ordinary young father, but was also very religiously knowledgeable. He
lived havdalah, the ceremony that separates the ending of Shabbat from
the beginning of the work week, which has always been my favorite
ceremony in Judaism. These men loved to joke and to do athletic
things, but would also jump into a serious conversation about ethics
and God.
My family calls people
like these "Joe DiMaggio-shirt Jewish" after a young man who
my mother and I met. He wore a Yankees shirt with Joe DiMaggio's name
and number on it. He had bought the shirt outside Yankee Stadium after
a game. He also wore a kippah. We learned that, not surprisingly, he
was a Ramahnik. Ramah is full of rabbis and counselors who are Joe
DiMaggio-shirt Jews. Their spirit and energy give people like me
guidance as to how to be both totally involved with secular culture
and absolutely committed to Judaism.
Many Ramah campers can
also be classified as Joe DiMaggio-shirt Jews. I have a whole group of
friends who share my customs and celebrations. We do not shove our
yarmulkes into our pockets as we leave the synagogue. We do not subtly
adjust our identities as we end prayers, because at camp religious
life is part of daily life, and daily life is part of religious life.
We help each other study for bar mitzvahs, and groan that, by the end
of the summer, we know our bunkmates' Torah potions as well as our
own. Even in non-religious camp activities, we use Hebrew words.
Camp Ramah has helped
me to understand that being an educated and observant Jew does not
mean having to isolate myself in a room day after day studying huge
volumes of Jewish law and never having contact with people who are
different. I do not have to choose between a great education and a
Judaism that does not insult my intelligence. Ramah demonstrates many
ways to combine the two. At camp, a Jewish studies class may be held
by a waterfall, in the woods, or even in a canoe. Teffilot can be held
by the waterfront, on a trail or even in our cabins. Campers are shown
that Judaism is a living tradition that can change to suit the
environment but that also stays true to its basic ideas. Experimenting
to find the mix that best suits the individual is part of the Ramah
way.
I wonder whether Ramah
will always be special for me. I like to think about becoming a
madrikh (counselor) there. How would I behave if I was a rosh edah
(division head)? What would it be like to help younger children
discover a sense of their religion? I worry that I may not be able to
do this as well as it was done for me. I sometimes worry that I will
outgrow Ramah and see the whole idea as silly. But then I remember the
smart, committed Jews that I have met all over the country. Often, at
one time or another, they were Ramahniks. Very different in their
regular lives, they share a certain excitement about the Jewish
tradition. Ramah alumni are the ones who try to bring changes to long,
boring services. They involve families and children in prayer. They
bring modern melodies to traditional songs. They feel that social
action is part of being Jewish. They wear Joe DiMaggio shirts as
comfortably as kippot.
Ramah has encouraged me
as I try to find my way Jewishly in a non-Jewish world. The Ramah
movement has done this for over three generations now. I hope that my
children will be the next generation of Ramahniks and that they will
love it the way I do.
Sam Berkowitz lives
in Pittsburgh with his parents, his sister and six cats. He attends
Shady Side Academy Middle School, and in the summer, goes to Camp
Ramah in Canada.
Reprinted with
permission of JTS News!.
Originally printed in the May/June 2001 edition of JTS News!
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